Welcome to

Ember & Oak

Family Mentoring

Family mentoring
for real life

Parenting can feel like a circus.
Loud. Emotional. Unpredictable.
(And somehow you’re meant to stay calm?)

You’re not doing it wrong.
You’re just parenting actual humans.

Take a breath.
You’re in the right place.

THIS WORK IS FOR YOU IF…

  • your kids have big feelings

  • Parenting feels harder than you expected and you’re not sure why

  • You and your partner keep looping the same arguments

  • You’re doing your best but still feel overwhelmed, tense, or disconnected

  • you want connection without chaos running the house

  • you’re done with being told to “just be calmer”

You don’t need fixing.
You need support that makes sense in real life.

CIRCLE OF SECURITY PARENTING (COSP)

I teach Circle of Security Parenting — a simple, powerful way to understand what your child needs emotionally.

No shame.
No punishment charts.
Just clearer connection.

Available for:

  • parents

  • couples

  • small groups / mothers groups

I run this program as an abbreviated version over 4 consecutive weeks (See work with me section for pricing).

What makes this different

My real skill is presence.

Not rushing. Not fixing. Not performing.

The kind of presence that helps nervous systems settle and truth surface without force, guilt or shame.

When people feel genuinely held, things move.

And when things move, parenting and relationships stop feeling so impossible.

Working together

  • 60-minute sessions

  • 1:1 or couples

  • Circle of Security Parenting programs

  • Online

I don’t use a booking system.

If this work feels like a fit, email me and we’ll find a time that works — human to human.

One last thing

You don’t need to be calmer, more regulated, or more together before you come.

You just need to come as you are.

That’s enough.

Email me to begin.

Email Kim